2015年(nián)10月(yuè)4日(rì)，香港紙(zhǐ)媒《南(nán)華早報(bào)》報(×∏ε÷bào)道(dào)了(le)破鏡重圓公司總監康納關于“小(xiǎo)三勸退”服務的(de)訪談內(nèi)容。 《南(nán)華早報(bào)》 ：康納，大(dà)獲成功的(de)“小(xi☆∑ǎo)三勸退師(shī)”
“他(tā)很(hěn)像威爾·史密斯在《全民(mín)情敵》中飾演的(de)角色。2005年(nián)的(de)愛(ài)情喜劇↑φ€(jù)電(diàn)影(yǐng)《全民(mín)情敵》中，威爾·史密斯飾演過一(yī)名出色的(de)約會(Ω♠"huì)顧問(wèn)。威爾·史密斯飾演的(de)這(zhè)個(gè)角γ₹✘→色在被兩任女(nǚ)友(yǒu)劈腿後自(zì)學成才，發現(xiàn)了(l↔¶e)赢取芳心的(de)秘訣，因而成為(wèi)一(yī)名約會 (huì)顧問(wèn)。”
不(bù)過，康納不(bù)是(shì)幫人(ré∞πγ±n)約會(huì)，而是(shì)幫助那(nà)些(xiē)陷§♥入婚姻苦惱中的(de)妻子(zǐ)們，去(qù)對(duì)付自(<✔÷zì)己丈夫的(de)“小(xiǎo)三”，幫助她(tā)們将老(lǎo)公重新吸引回家(ji<>ā)庭當中。 以下(xià)為(wèi)香港《南(nán)華早報(bào)》原文®φβ(wén)報(bào)道(dào)： China's reverse Ashley ε₩Ω€;Madison: how&nπ✔bsp;ditching mistresses&÷ ™γnbsp;and saving&nβ¶γγbsp;marriages became big&n↓bsp;money
Connor Ding from Z★haoqing in Guan←¶gdong province&n↓ bsp;is China's&≥βnbsp;answer to Will&nλλbsp;Smith, as seen&nb™£sp;in the 20☆™>05 movie Hitch, about a self-taught dati÷♣¶ng consultant who f∏♥↑igured out ≠™the mystery of w©αinning women's hearts<≈↕, thanks to&n•↕'bsp;two of his ∏$;ex-girlfriends '∞"δwho cheated on&nb€ ∏sp;him.
But that is not&n±σ∏ bsp;how the 28←'-year-old became ☆≥ famous. Over&n'&↕bsp;the past week☆☆£s, he has been&n♣↔✘bsp;interviewed on&nb Ωsp;television, radio and&nbγ'sp;in print σ✘£;to discuss hisσ♦±♣ newly success♦¶ful business - h♥≈ow to get rid&↓÷βnbsp;of mistresses.
"Every man cheats'↓>λ if he is unhappy&n$∞≤∞bsp;in love, includingλ←≥ myself," Connor to ∑™ld theSouth China Morning&nbβ©₩sp;Post recently. But λ₹φ;he was quick to s★±™<tress that he was ↕±;happily married.
"People cheat βδbecause somethin♠ £g is missing €≤★∑in their marr¥★iage, whether it is&n♣↕bsp;sex appeal, respect&n ®∞bsp;or love … We×Ω×✘ help people ∏™¶;to take control of&nb÷≠sp;their relationship by ☆ ÷;teaching them how ¥≥<←;to address and♣♣σ resolve problems♠λ≠ and gain b'& ack their partners, γ♦which often λ ;involves getting&nbs'→γ←p;rid of a third pφ↑&±arty," he said.
Cheating is universal,&nb ↕&sp;as seen in the&φ nbsp;Canadian-based ™λ>dating website Ashle¶¶γ≈y Madison, which&nb€>sp;billed itself as th↓ £e site for&nbs♥☆♣p;people seeking extλ•®®ramarital affairs.
In China, mistresses ≤÷™εare no less&nbsφ★λp;common than el★↓sewhere, and ×→;ditching them is a&n≈ bsp;bizarre yet&nbs≤α♦♥p;highly sought&>π≠nbsp;after service in₩✔ demand mostly by £©'women with r₹♠§ich husbands.
Many such wives wiφε ll offer tens&n∏bsp;of thousands to mi δ≈llions of yuan for®γ mistresses&nbs↔€↕p;to make discrete'• exits ratheφ☆ ♣r than fight&β$§nbsp;their husbands in c¥↑≠ourt.
The country's matβ←erialistic valuπ'es are reflec'φ'ted in the&nb§σsp;Chinese take♥€∑∞ on romance, according&φ∏nbsp;to 46-year€α ≥-old Ming Li,&nbs>₽¶σp;a Shanghai-based mar✘&÷riage consultant of&nb ♣Ωsp;15 years.
"There is a famou★÷πs saying among t∏ βδhe circle ofπ✔↕ mistresses that&nbβ↓sp;'there is n∞±∑o unbreakable&nb≤↓sp;family, only a ≈π;lazy mistress',↑☆✘" said Ming.
"China was so co✔↔λnservative then,&nε ≈bsp;but today many&δ✔₩ nbsp;girls just d ≤on't have the ≥®patience to wait >α ;for years while ∏→"'their men acquire&nbs✘↓₩p;enough wealth to€§§ afford a ho☆↕×use and car. Declining☆ ≤ morals and© ®♣ materialistic valueγ★•s are equally to&nσγ÷₹bsp;blame," said Ming,&nbs★γp;who estimates t•φ™&hat she has handled&✔♠αnbsp;more than 50,000 ≈↕λcases over the ×♦;years.
"We see 20&nbs"™p;to 30 new clients&nbσ≤πσsp;at our consu↕π☆¥ltancy every day," she&nλ ✔♣bsp;added. According to the Mini€>stry of Civil Affa∞↓☆♣irs, more than 3.6 ♠ε♦§million couples¥§✔ - one in fπ✔Ω©our - filed ∏∞;for divorce la ✘∞↔st year, a&n•£bsp;number that has b©♦∑♦een rising for the&n↓≤σ∏bsp;past 12 yea≤•φrs.
The waiting ₹±±•time to file a&←£nbsp;divorce applicatio✘α ♥n is one&nb✔≤€βsp;month in Guangzh>÷¶♥ou, according to&n≈bsp;mainland media report>↓s, which attribute↓π the high& ₹ γnbsp;divorce rate to so>÷±₹cial changes and technol★₽ogy-enhanced cheatin₩♥<g.
"It costs next t®&Ω↔o nothing to cheσ§"at, thanks to ≤'αtechnology, but ♠♥;the cost of main€×taining a ma₹♥✘rriage gets higher ÷ ↑≈;every day," ' ≠★;said Connor, referrin★πg to websites δ©×and social media pl↕♣δatforms where strangers&nγ>•bsp;meet.
"Mistress-dispelling", a< s it is known, is∑∑× a booming&"♦✔nbsp;industry where&nbs↓β p;dating consultant >φ≥s form companies t£•¥¶o hire teams&nbs↕ε→p;of handsome gym in<→structors, counsel♦↔•lors, lawyers and ✔€☆©;investigators to&nbs¥§ p;provide a " φ ₩holistic approach§γ$®" in persuading the&n₩α∏"bsp;third party ₹↓;to leave.
Intervention strategies inc lude helping mistresses&nb♦≥sp;explore better li→∞πfe options in romanc§✘δ>e and careers, introduε≤"cing them to new&n₽✘bsp;social circles and o≤ε≈♥ffering counsellinΩ"g if it is needeλ∏± d.
Another approach is ®¥to help the third<>© party realise ∑ that their lovers are&n↑≥≤©bsp;in fact already ππmarried with children anα d that they&n 'σφbsp;never intended to&nb ε↑sp;get a divorδ×✘↔ce.
Dr Ke Qianting, a&nbs<§>☆p;gender scholar&n←♦bsp;at Sun Yat-€★sen University in&•★±£nbsp;Guangzhou, said the≈Ω traditional Confucian <;value of men dominat™>γ✔ing the world&nβ§bsp;outside while&λ®→☆nbsp;women's authority €÷and talents were respe♥ cted within the ↓≥home persists i↓♣n modern s'¶'←ociety.
"This division of lδ↕abour among partners ha↔∑ sn't changed, so β§∑♠;when something goes w§∏→rong in the hous♦≤βe, it's normally the∞ε∏ wives who bring&nb$§sp;about changes or p♥✘rovide a solution,"&nbs♦♣'∑p;Ke said.
She added that many&nb™sp;Chinese women endur×≥§e unfaithful&nbγ♥•"sp;marriages for&→Ω↑₩nbsp;the sake&nβ★∑≈bsp;of children. "Some also do it&₹₽πnbsp;because our ma•₽≈♥rriage law doesλ♦π× not work ≠φ✔¶;in the wives' 'φ✔±;favour. It's easy>♣ε for men to hide&↑¥☆nbsp;their assets w✘αhen it comes&nb∏λ→sp;to settlemen↔↑&ts, and child support&÷☆βγnbsp;is rarely executeγ&™☆d if the ma✘≠n simply fail±s to pay,"&nb•✔π®sp;she said.
Connor's company is ba™α₽sed in Shenzhen, known&™>α↑nbsp;as the "$§↕¶City of Mistresses" αβ;due to the hig¶£ φh number of Hong K∏®←ong men who ke§ ✔ep second wives&nb£•εsp;in the bustling≠®∏ city. One-fifth of&nb≈β©φsp;Connor's clients a$γ♥re based oversea®♦s and business ←>βis so good th☆πat he plans to ☆≥;set up a branch in↕ every mainlan♥®®d province within two&δ✘nbsp;years.
The newly establish©$•ed industry is✔±₩¶ taking clients not↕&✘☆ only from × the mainla§✘₽nd, but also Chiσ≈nese-speaking wives&n✘↑✘bsp;from Hong Kong,&nbsβ®₽p;Taiwan, Singapore× ₽ and the United SφΩtates who complai<→♦n that their husbanσds are being ¶∑;snatched away by ×π£ambitious young↔σ women from&> nbsp;the mainland↓&γ±. There is always a pβ₩rice for infide¶∞'lity, and Connor's hel®'λp in convincing a →≈™∏;mistress that&nbs≈♦∏p;it's time to end& ↑πnbsp;a relationship is&β←∞↓nbsp;no exceptiβφαon.
Fees for his ♣♥¥♦;service start at 30,0 $φ00 yuan (HK$36,520) ₽↕for internet and phone-$×'based consultati¥↔on. However, oγ©ffline work begins a✘←t a hefty 100,000"↑ yuan, said Connor,& εnbsp;who has charg∑✘φed up to&n↑Ωπbsp;2 million y§φ¥uan for cases, whi$®δch he said&n÷<bsp;was not rare in ✘©;the trade in&nb§¥sp;China.
"Our success rate ↓÷σis 80 per ® ♣<;cent," Connor saidπε£. "If you'™≈↑re not satis∞☆↕™fied, we'll retuπ↔rn your money." Meanwhile, marriage&n•β>bsp;consultant Mi✘♣<ng said her&÷α proudest m♥<oment was to persu∑>ade a mistress ®∞§of eight yeπ±ars to walk&♦→nbsp;away from&n★♥bsp;a man even&→"×nbsp;after having fo♥"&ur abortions.
"I helped her accept&nbsε±↓>p;the harsh truth that&€λ≠nbsp;the man w ✘$as never going to&n↓™bsp;divorce his wife&nbs<₽≠ p;and marry her. •<;I helped her ↓€±find a new b♥&₩oyfriend. She is×"₩ now happily ↔§married with a&γ↕↓nbsp;daughter. Her&nδ&¶φbsp;parents still ¶ε>;thank me today," M✔×♠¶ing said. 香港《南(nán)華早報(bào)》原文(wén)π©鏈接：
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